Dating on Facebook: seducing your friends' exes
Social networking sites such as Friendster, Hi-5, Orkut, MySpace and now Facebook, are the new "place to be" when it comes to modern seducing and dating. These social sites represent some advantages over the "classic" dating sites such as Meetic, Match, Yahoo Personals and Rendez-vous.You could meet and date them very quickly
First advantage: you have a possiblity to meet that Facebook cutie very rapidly in real life. When you are browsing through your Facebook friends "list of friends", and all of a sudden, you have that "whoa" feeling looking at a particular picture, it's not difficult to get in touch with that beautiful woman within days. Indeed, you just have to drop her name when talking to your common friend and then ask around a bit. Maybe you can suggest a meeting to your mutual friend. You could date her in a matter of days. Anyhow, it will be faster than through the whole Meetic-process of chatting for hours, mailing for weeks, finally to end up with. dating for months.Advantage 2: it's more secure and less awkward
Nothing special about meeting a friend of an Orkut friend, even if that friend of a friend is one of the most gorgeous creatures you've ever seen on this planet. Such meeting is very common and natural. Anyhow, much more natural than the "you'll recognize me cuz I'm wearing a red rose" kind of date. And "natural" is always a good start, ain't it?Advantage 3: you get an idea of her interests in advance
To avoid the typical "Meetic surprise" like "that girl I thought was one hot kind of a waitress, really underground kinky lady" who reveals to be. a boring math teacher who hasn't landed for years, Facebook and Orkut might be the solution. Indeed, your mutual Facebook-friend will warn you immediately if that "exciting chick with that beautiful pic" is in fact a boring money-seeking mama or a hysterical drama queen with bad breath (Your facebook friend will tell you if he is a real friend that is. Specificially observe his eyes: if they tend to open widely with a scary look, DON'T push that "Friend request confirm" button). You must admit: such things you can't check through Meetic or Match.com, unless asking explicitly, which might compromise your seduction strategies in a considerable way.Advantage 4: hot girls tend to have hot friends
Finally, when you met that "friend of your MySpace friend" and it ended up in one of these 4 scenarios
- You've met that Orkut girl but she was indeed a boring math teacher (ie. Your presumed mutual friend on Orkut didn't warn you)
- That Hi-5 girlie indeed looked great in real, but, you know, she talked about Jezus all the time, or talked about a "no sex before marriage" policy (Your Hi 5 - friend knew but was too ashamed to warn you)
- She wanted to be "friends" with you. (saying "let us just be friends", that line known as "The kiss of death")
- She told you about her psycho ex military boyfriend who just came out of prison and is a bit jealous - having seen your numerous Facebook wall posts, and having found your adress (real life)
Even if you encounter one of these 4 scenarios, don't panic, there is still a solution. You always have a fall-back option. Now that you ARE Facebook or Orkut friends after all, browse around a bit on her Friends list. Hotties have a statistical higher probability of having hot sisters, hot friends, and even hot colleagues. Maybe that sister of her is a just a little less catholic.? She's only a "friend request" click away ;-)And finally: here is how NOT to do it:
