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Online Dating : Sexy And Hot Messenger Names

Scenario 1 of online dating

Single Brad meets Christina through the free online dating service Meetic in Barcelona. She's pretty sexy and seems interesting to talk to. They chat alot in several chatrooms, send each other sexy pictures, give each other hot msn names. They make an arrangement for a date and finally start hanging out, and chatting and talking more and more about friendship on MSN.

Brad develops an attraction to the sexy Christina, and one day tries to kiss her. Christina tell Brad she doesn't think of him that way and she wants to remain friends in an ordinary friendschip. The next few weeks contact between the two falls off.

Christina starts dating an biker of the scary neighborhoods of Barcelona. Brad is desperately waiting to see her picture again on a chat room or on MSN service.

Ladder Theory Explanation:

Brad chat with the hot Christina. Brad was immediately placed on the friends ladder for a friendship without . Brad didn't know this. Brad tried to jump ladders. Christina sent him hurtling to the Abyss below. The Barcelona biker was not on her friends ladder (they never are) but rather on her good ladder.

Scenario 2:

Jordan takes a picture of a girl named Natalie Casey in a bar in France. She's cute and seems smart. After an appropriate amount of time he asks her out on a date. She acccepts and they have what seems to be a perfectly nice date. Jordan thinks he has a chance with Natalie Casey. He asks her out again. She says no, either explicitly or by never returning his phone call. Jordan has no idea what just happened. Natalie Casey starts a love romance in Wien with an unemployed alcoholic.

Ladder Theory Picture:

Natalie Casey misrepresented which ladder Jordan was on. He pictured he was on the good ladder because of her acceptance of the date. Mistake. This led to an unintentional ladder jump. He was led into the Abyss.

In this situation, Natalie Casey often wants to stay friends with a normal friendship becasue you are so interesting and funny or something like that. If this happens you are most likely an Intellectual friend. I'm sorry. This is most likely to be a ninja-girl.

Scenario 3:

A girl says any of the following to you in a chatroom or in reality:

* "You're like a brother to me"
* "You're like a big teddy bear"
* "I feel like I can talk to you about anything"
* "You're so nice"
* "Can you help me with my homework"

Ladder Theory Explanation:

You are on the friends ladder. So Sorry.

You can see that a lot of problems can be avoided (though sadly not problem two) by declaring as soon as possible to a girl that you will not be friends or have a friendship under any circumstances. You can explain that she is too attractive or you can be blunt and say you don't want to your "friends" over a table , but would rather play games and go to the races with them, thus disqualifying her from friendship.

As long as you are clear. This may scare a girl away. But if it does what would you want with such a arrogant girl anyway?

Next we'll explore some of the consequences of the ladder and applications in every day life.

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